This was one of the recent topics at
WeddingAtWork. I really wanted to share my thoughts with regards to this topic but I chose not to because I will just be repeating what has been said already. I just went on and read the thoughts and opinions of other w@wies.
Myr & I both agreed that we will have an "adults only" event. Even our entourage did not consist of any kids because we really wanted the event to be "adults only". As expected, we heard comments from both our parents and other members of Myr's family. (
Haven't formally informed most of my relatives that I'll be getting married this year. LOL!)
Kids may be cute but kids will be kids. We just would want to avoid kids throwing tantrums when they get bored during the ceremony or reception. I've attended weddings and have seen children running around the reception venue, kids as entourage members not wanting to walk alone and delaying the bridal march, children crying while the ceremony on-going and the list just goes on.
It seems though that we really can't avoid having kids in our wedding. One reason is that the whole family will be attending and don't know where they could leave their 8 year old daughter. We allowed this since it seems like a valid reason and because its Myr's cousin. So now, kids will be allowed as long as they are our relatives. I guess since we were vocal about this that they would try to as much as possible "contain" their children during the ceremony.
I'm still thinking if we should still place a note in our invitations that the event is for adults only. Since that will not be the case anymore. I guess we would just write down a limit to the number of seats reserved for them in the RSVP card. ♥